Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Spooky update

Life continues at our regular relentless pace.

We went back to see Dr. Bailey this last Monday. Everyone feels that you look great and are healing well.

After you got your sutures removed last Monday your incision was open a little bit so we kept Steri-strips on it and now this week it looks like it is completely closed.

You are steadily gaining weight and weigh a whopping 14lbs 90z. I little more than a full pound of weight gain in less than a month!

They measured you at 24 1/2 inches but honestly your height varies so much depending on who is measuring you that I don't know how long you really are. You are growing though and that's what's important.

It seems amazing to say but as terrible as your scar looked after the surgery it doesn't look all that bad now and I figure it will continue to heal and fade till it's not really much of an issue anymore.

We found out that no matter what your IV antibiotics will end October 26th! Thank goodness just 7 days left and then you can get the PICC line out and once again have a full bath. I can't wait to see if you love it as much as you did before the surgery.

You are beautiful and amazing. Happy 97% of the time your almost back physically to what you were doing before the first surgery in August. Your back to rolling and scooting around again. If I put you on your play mat within a few minuets you will have worked yourself off of it till your feeding tube is stretched out as far as it can go. I can't express how much I love your personality.

Our new ENT (whom we ADORE) has ordered a new hearing test for you to see how putting in the ear tubes and draining out all that fluid will affect your hearing.

Dad and I are prepared for there to be no improvement but are holding on to hope that your hearing loss might not be as sever as the first test indicated. As soon as we get the results we are all about getting your hearing aids.

Your dad and I are hanging in there. It will be years and years before you read this so I will admit to you that this IV medication regimen is exhausting. I'm getting about 3 1/2 hours of sleep on average and it's really wearing on me.

There have been a couple of days where I just didn't think I could do it one more second. But then the moment passed and we just go on. If it weren't for my family, your Granny and Aunt JJ, I don't honestly think we could continue to do it.

And to top off our busy schedule I've finally started back to work. I haven't worked in over a year and a half so I felt a bit rusty but after being a nurse for almost 10 years it's something you don't really forget.

From now till the end of the year I will be working full-time or as close to it as I can manage. Luckily for me full time is 3 12 hour shifts and I work nights so it's doable. The hardest part will be the lack of sleep an adding more to our already hectic schedule but it's necessary.

Without the financial help from our family members we wouldn't have been able to stay with you while you were in the hospital and we want to pay them back as soon as we can.

This will make it even harder to update the blog. I will do my best to post at least somewhat regularly but don't worry if you don't hear from us for a while.

So it's Halloween time. Have I mentioned how much I love Halloween?

Oh but I do!

It's my favorite holiday equal only to Christmas. But in some ways I think Halloween is even better because it's a holiday where everything we do is for others.

The decorations, the candy. It all makes me giggle with glee. Every year we decorate the lawn with a haunted graveyard. It's a hit every year and one of my most favorite things to do all year long.

Your dad grumbles a bit about the work it takes but he loves it too. He just doesn't giggle with glee. :)

One of the other things I love to do at Halloween it to get holiday PJ's and outfits. I wasn't sure we would be able to afford to do it this year but your Aunt JJ found a Ebay gift card your dad gave me for mother's day three years ago that I had left at Aunt JJ's and forgot about.

I was able to get all the outfits I wanted except skeleton PJs for Pierce, which your Granny ended up buying for us, and didn't "spend" a penny.

So now I can now dress you and take pictures of you two to my spooky heart's content.

I also found a ton of stuff I got 75% off last year from Target Halloween sale so even I have something to wear.

Me --- giggling with glee again.

I wonder if you two will love me or want to kill me for these pictures. I bet your wives will love them.

It really looks like Pierce really enjoys holding you in the pictures doesn't it? Too bad he will let go of you seconds after I take the picture.

Thanks for my PJ's Granny!

Look at how good your sitting up! Your getting so much better at it.

He looks so sweet doesn't he? Don't be fooled. It's almost impossible to get him to pose for a picture anymore. We usually have to bribe him with something. Time on the computer playing games works well for now.

The outfit you are wearing here is the same one Pierce wore on his first Halloween. I'm so happy I kept it.

Pierce was 2 months old (and freakishly tall) and your 9 months old and it fits you both perfectly.

These Halloween booties were given to us by your Aunt Lisa. I just know that she would have loved seeing her "Sam" wearing them.

We have been going a little crafty around here. It thing is we don't have any money to spend on things like crafts so we have had to either finish projects we have already started or use what we have left over from old projects.

I saw this sign on Pinterest from the website I love naptime and fell in love with it. Your Dad was able to make me one out of scraps left over from a tree we had cut down. I then used old paint and a little chalk board spray paint I bought last year and never used to make the count down board.

See here it is on the porch. I just love it!

We also painted a wall in the kitchen with metallic paint and then covered it with chalkboard paint. It only took a a few minuets to do each coat. The longest part was waiting for the layers to dry.

Pierce loves it and I'm sure you will to. We have plans to do more to it but are already using it daily.

Dang fine "A's" for a 3 year old aren't they?

We are also working on potty training Pierce. We have been putting it off since we were so busy but are now going for it. Pierce gets it and stays dry most of the time but hasn't deiced to cooperate 100% of the time yet.

So that's it for now. We have been hoping the weather would cool down before we go to the pumpkin patch but now we only have 11 days left so we are going Monday now matter what.

Pictures to come!


Ruxson, Sasha, and Kurt said... Best Blogger Tips

I can't express how wonderful this whole post has been! I am so happy that life is getting back to a more stable position for ALL of you! Good luck with working! I have now gone back full time this week. I am definitely not used to it! But I love the money making part of it. The feeling to pay a bill again. This is what is making me giggle with glee for the moment!! The boys are absolutely adorable in their Halloween gear!!! I hope you all have a wonderful Halloween!!

Michelle K. said... Best Blogger Tips

I am so glad to see a new post with such wonderful news! Prayers for steady healing and health coming your way daily!

Thanks for posting and good luck with the hectic schedule.

dxeechick said... Best Blogger Tips

Amy, can I tell you to see Mason's scar looking so great just brought tears to my eyes! What a relief. Not that it would've mattered to you or the people who love him, but its just one less thing to worry about. He looks so fantastic! I'm glad to hear of all the progress. :)) What a stud! The Halloween stuff is super fun too. You are a cool mom!!

Kristi said... Best Blogger Tips

So happy to read all the happy, positive updates and see your great Halloween decorations! Everything looks great! You have the PERFECT porch for all holiday decorating!

Sorry things are tough financially... we get that piece. As stressful as it gets, though, I can say that I'd never trade the money spent (or not earned) while staying "bedside" with Gracie. Like with her, you know Mason fought hard because you guys were there with him. There is no price to be put on that.

Hope the work transition goes well. I remember going back after Gracie's first extended 3-month PICU visit. It was hard, but eventually everything fell into place and the schedule worked itself out. It helps to learn to live on the edge of sleep deprivation! ;)

Can't wait to see more Halloween pics!

goodgirrl79 said... Best Blogger Tips

I've been holding onto the "no news is good news" for you guys and I'm SO HAPPY that is was true!! Mason is looking WONDERFUL!! Thank you for letting us into your lives and sharing all the Halloween fun with us! Good luck with work:)

Anonymous said... Best Blogger Tips

You are a brave woman to be headed back to work. I have always worked nights as a nurse so that my kids do not have to go to daycare, but I only do it two days a week, and have nowhere the schedule that you do! I have followed your story since Mason was born and you and your family are an inspiration. I am so glad that everyone is doing well and wish you the best.

Jeffrey W. Baker said... Best Blogger Tips

Amy, so glad to read such good news. Both your boys are absolutely darling, and Mason is admired not only for his cuteness, but for his strong fighting spirit. What a little warrior he is.

I know it's hard to keep such a schedule, but just take things a day at a time. It WILL get better. This won't last forever. Don't hesitate to take advantage of those willing to help you out...we moms can do anything, provided we get enough sleep occasionally. Remember, taking a nap is a necessity, not a luxury, so let others help.

I love your 'love' of Halloween. It is such fun for our kids. Jeff still loves Halloween, the decorations, dressing in costume and trick-or-treating. And that's fine with keeps us young.

Hang in there Mom, you can do it! It's not easy but o worth it. Unsolicited words from the voice of experience.

Blessings & hugs,
Linda Baker (Mom to Jeff)